QUESTION: What do you get when you have 3 boys, 2 skateboards, a dog, and a tennis ball all outside in February?
(Sounds like a Horrible combination, eh?)
ANSWER: An ugly mess that results in a broken arm
Last Thursday, yet another mild winter day for us in Suburban Boston, my children went outside. First it was just Little Guy and M-Man, playing hoops. But things weren’t going so well between Little Bro and Big Bro, so T-Man declared “I’ll go outside to keep the peace!” (Thanks T-MAN!)
Not five minutes later, I hear this God-aweful continuous howling outside. Mommy-instinct KNOWS it’s bad. I run to the front door and open it, but T-Man is yelling from the Basement “M’s Hurt.” Apparantly, Little Guy was getting back at Big Bro by throwing the tennis ball near where he was skateboarding. And the dog tackled M-Man off the skateboard. (BOYS………..ERGHHHHHH)
I find M, lying on the driveway on his left side, unable to move his left arm (did I ever mention, he’s a lefty?). I get him to sit up, and I check his arms for swelling, bleeding or bruising, but I don’t see any. I move him into the basement and get him some ice, but Mommy Spidey-sense is telling me that ice isn’t going to help this one…..He’s still howling in pain. And his elbow is starting to swell.
I pack the kids up and go to the local urgent care. I call my mom to get T-Man and Little Guy since it’s around dinner time, and we all know how emergency rooms can be. All in all, we didn’t wait long to be seen, or have X-rays taken. But the shocker was when the doctor came into our exam room, and without going near M-Man, looks at me at said, “I strongly suggest you take him to Children’s Hospital for evaluation rather than an orthopedic around here.” EXCUSE ME?
I ask, “What exactly did you see in the Xray that you are sending us to Children’s? Now?”
I didn’t understand his Latin medical terminology, but I did hear surgery and pins. Oh boy. I call my mom and text hubby (who is on a plane back home) that we’re heading into Boston.
Dr. Urgent Care was right. M-Man required surgery to place pins in his elbow as he damaged his growth plate. He’ll be in a cast for 4-6 weeks.
And even with a cast from his knuckles to his shoulder, M-Man still wants to play with LEGO.
Our experiences the last few days reminded me of a few things.
First, M-Man is just an AMAZING kid. Ok, I already knew that. But my time with him re-affirmed it! Although at first impact, I’m sure his pain was a 20 on a scale of 1-10, by the time we were asked at Urgent Care, he said it was an 8. By the time we reached Children’s Hospital, he said it was down to a 6. And after 5 hours in the Children’s ER, he stated it was a 4. And throughout the entire evening….throughout the entire 48 hour stay at Children’s….he was smiling the whole time. He was such a trooper. His spirit is awesome (and contagious). A total joy to be around and take care of.
I am also extremely grateful to be living 20 minutes away from one of the best, if not THE BEST, Children’s Hospital in the world. The level of care and compassion is truly second to none. This is the third time (second for M-Man) that our children have had to go to Children’s. I have so much confidence in the expert care they provide. However, taking a trip to Children’s Hospital can be heart-wrenching–seeing so many children who are sick, or disabled, or need the specialized care that only Children’s can provide. It makes me appreciate so much that my children are strong, healthy, thriving children. THANK YOU GOD.
The next few weeks should be interesting. But M-Man is young, healthy, drinks his milk. And with that great spirit, how could he not heal quickly?